Day 11. Patience

“Patience” 10×10, oil on canvas, framed

31 in 31 is always an exercise in patience. I want so much to jump ahead, to sing the song without having to go through all the verses. Patience is visiting today in the form of a little bird landing on a relaxed, reclining figure not so much playing as playing around on her guitar. 

When I sat down to write about patience I kept thinking about my mom who is an amazing cook mostly because she lets things take the time they take. I am a work in progress on that front, but this morning I patiently conjured and savored the image of her in our 80s kitchen with all the smells it evokes. My mom and I look alike but I don’t have her patience. I hope one day I’ll stop turning the heat up so high in a rush for things to be done. 

Patience
 
Don’t watch water boil
Or overcook scrambled eggs
In fact, most of her rules are simply 
not to turn the heat too high–
The garlic becomes bitter
The butter burns
 
My mother does most things slowly
Methodically, carefully, oblivious to
The demands of a clock 
Whose hot breath I always feel at my neck
Running in a circle,
I am trying to stay ahead
Less the hour hand take out my knees
 
If my mom played guitar she’d let
Each sound linger. She wouldn’t
Let a song get in the way of a note
She’d let the chords simmer on low
Music bubbling to the surface–
the smell of caramelizing onions
In a meticulously wallpapered kitchen

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Denise Hopkins

January 11, 2025

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